Monday, January 31, 2011

What Are We Saying About Ourselves?

As we fight for our equal rights, many issues and questions about "mainstreaming" into American society have risen to the surface.

What will happen to GLBTQ identity and culture? Will it disappear as we become acclimated to mainstream society? What about the drag queens, effeminate men, cross-dressers, the leather community, people in non-monogamous or poly-amorous relationships and individuals who aren't interested in marrying and raising families?

As assimilation into the mainstream is becoming a reality, many are expressing concerns about mass media portrayal of GLBTQ characters. Some of us wonder if the character of Kurt on "Glee" helps or hinders the greater society to continue to perpetrate GLBTQ stereotypes or promotes acceptance and normalcy? Some of us are suggesting we downplay the "non-conformist" segments of our subculture. Many of us are ashamed of those in our community who are different. We demand that mainstream America endorse diversity, yet we not all of us practice it. Non-conformists do exist and they deserve to be counted. 

Some of us also feel that we should hide the less positive things about ourselves as it might prevent mass acceptance of our subculture. That puts us in the same league as the wing nuts who are revising history to suit their needs and use it to continue to vilify us and help prevent us from having the same equal rights as all Americans.

As we do acclimate into the mainstream, it is absolutely imperative to keep our history accurate. We have to give future generations the opportunity to benefit from our triumphs and mistakes. They need to know the richness of our history through the writings of authors like Armistead Maupin; his chronicles of San Francisco portray a very important time in our culture and history. Many of our young ones don't know about Maupin or his writings. We must also expose them to the likes of the self-loathing Roy Cohn and the role he played in destroying innocent peoples' lives, some of who were gay just as he was. It has to be out there, warts and all. It's the only way we can assure that our future generations know how we came to be part of mainstream society and give a sense of purpose to the LGBTQ community as we are integrated into it.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Utah: Guns & Politics

In response to our friends on the hill proposing to name an official state gun (see "Utah GOP Proposes Naming Browning Semi-Automatic the Official State Gun" at joe.my.god), a friend of mine (who lives here in Utah also) asks, what will be voted the state crime? I think it will be gay sex. But if that is what would happen, many of the politicians who want a "state gun" will have to shoot themselves in the closet!


SAW (Not in 3D): The Final Chapter - Guilty Pleasure


As many of you who know me will attest, the bottom of the barrel can be as interesting to me as the cream of the crop. I was curious as I'd seen all of the others in the franchise. While films 2 through 6 were a bit better than your average franchise sequels, I wasn't sure what to expect from the "final" chapter. There was more gallows humor than the others and it was a bit more over-the-top in regard to the overall tone of the film. The twist at the end was a fun, satisfying close to the series. And of course, if they ever decide to resurrect the franchise, there's still a way. Oh, and in case you're wondering about the still above, what's not to enjoy about a hot, sexy racist getting what he is due for his hateful, murderous ways? 8-)

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

My Favorites from Last Year

My list is based on what I saw last year. Some of the films listed were released prior to 2010. Not in any particular order.

1. A Prophet (star Tahar Rahim in a still from the film pictured here)
2. Martyrs
3. Micmacs
4. Whole New Thing
5. Terribly Happy
6. Gomorrah
7. Nine (The Musical)
8. Girl With The Dragon Tattoo
9. The International
10. Metropolis (2010 newly restored version)

As usual, my picks don't show up on Golden Globe or Oscar lists. Do I lose my gay card-carrying rights?

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Hatred, Bullying & Greed


Like cancer, hatred, bullying and greed completely poisons one's mind. And once that happens, it forces the body to physically manifest what has happened to the mind. And it ain't pretty.

Steelers in Strange Places...


It has appeared today again on the neighbor's lawn!

BURIED



Just did a Sunday afternoon movie, BURIED, with Ryan Reynolds. Interesting concept, but the script was not that good. Very predictable. You could see a plot development coming way before it happened. In addition, it manipulated the viewers' emotions in very obvious and cheap ways. Let's face it, if you're going to have a film with only one character on screen the whole 95 minutes and have them in a wooden box, ya better have something to keep the viewer interested! The ending was good. If had veered away from all of the other cliches, throughout the film, it could have been a lot better.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Welcome to Blog?Never!




This is my first post to my first blog site... ever!

This is an experiment so I'm not sure what direction this will take. Writing on Facebook can be limiting in many ways; a blog seems to provide a bit more flexibility in expressing oneself. I have also become a BIG fan of Joe Jervis' blogsite, joe.my.god. He is an inspiration and his blog exemplifies what I feel is the very best of what a blog can offer to its' readers. I am way too much of a novice to think that I could ever be in Joe's league, but experiencing his blog sets a standard to aspire to and which I will strive towards. And hopefully you'll get to experience some of my "flavor" along the way!

The photo that I've included here is a Christmas photo from when I was 4 years old. It foresees a few things about me: having the desire to deejay started very early on, that loving music is as genetically inherent as being gay, and that I had fashion sense even as a child! (Not really, but my mom did.)

The reason that I've included this picture is that there is a new blog site called "Born This Way!" that I recommend looking at and contributing to. You'll see this photo there soon.